CLOSEST GUARDED SECRET MEN KEEP

"Sex"   is such a secret that we will know fully about it only when we are really into it . Like swimming can`t be learnt without getting into water  nothing about sex is clear without a successful marriage. Sex outside marriage is physical and is devoid of emotional content. So this  NEVER  creates emotional love between partners . In this blog sex means heterosex.
Many marriages fail because the partners do not enjoy total physical mental social and emotional  gratification from sex . Some couple live together unhappily out of compulsion of children , parents, society ,property or law.
Perfect partnership is possible between two people only if they live like " lock and key" just made for each other and nothing else. 
Between sexes  men need more help than women. This is because woman being a comparatively  passive partner can have sex without total gratification known as orgasm. Man has to stay potent and man`s potency is disturbed partially or totally even with a single negative expression or gesture of the female partner.Many very intelligent and educated women pretend to be docile just to keep their husbands potent and to enjoy heterosex fully.
In short , man is potent only if woman is co operative. This is the reason why marriage is institutionalised . Don`t mistake it for orthodox renegade old fashioned  uncivilised opinion.Moreover men lose potency if women are not attired, dressed styled as per specifications decided deep in men`s  brain not always spoken out.So woman`s attributes for a happy companionship are known only to the man. 
Men don`t reveal it but they are almost never in a position to dominate  women  and women who co operate only can dominate . 
The present marital crises can be explaained only by understanding this. Next time you see your mother politely accepting your father`s  short temper don`t mistake her to be a lady who fears her husband. She is just intelligent and knows her husband`s weak point .